So many people around the world, either dread or treasure Valentines Day, and rightly so! It is a day of expectation and wanting for people, hoping their partner will get it right. A day that has become so commercialized and fake, that even people who can affford to participate, quite often get it wrong or go overboard. If your with someone, being good to each other is just natural or it should be, one day is not enough if you really love💖 someone. If your single it has become a day to curse. I have heard about and also experienced being alone on Valentines Day and having dark resentment seep in, what a waste!
Well I say why not try a different approach. Why not just enter into Valentines Day as a person who Loves yourself & make plans that make you happy. We have all heard that if you don’t take care of yourself, you will not have much to give to others, well it’s true. Be good to yourself, make plans for a spa or go to a show, music, theatre. Take time to do something that feeds your mind as well as your stomach. Don’t let anyone make you feel inferior just because you are alone, or as a couple you don’t celebrate for one day. What I have learned, is that being single is a chance to find your power, develope talents you never made time for before, and truly be in Love with being in your own company. I feel reconstructed and so now Valentines Day is reconstructed too. So now what I feel is grateful for, is to know the Valentine that I send out, is not only to everyone I care about, but also to feel I deserve care too.
I’m wishing you all a chance to feel cared for, by yourself & by others.
Happy Reconstructed Valentines.💋